
So what’s the deal with male prostate stimulation? To put it short and simple – it’s a great way to experience awesome orgasms. And it really isn’t that complicated as some might try to convince you.
You know the stories about women’s G-spot and how they can achieve multiple orgasms by stimulating it. Well, men also have their own hot spot – a prostate gland. The male prostate stimulation is easily achievable by massaging the prostate gland.
It was a bit tricky at the beginning, I must admit, but once you get a hang of it and get yourself some accessories (we’ll talk about that soon) it will be so easy – you’ll be doing it every day.
Like I mentioned, it is a bit tricky, I had a lot of problems at the beginning, read lots of articles, even borrowed few books from my local library…but it wasn’t until I discovered Male Multiple Orgasms by Ian Kessler I really discovered some nice tricks to achieve pure pleasure in prostate stimulation. The book is packed with awesome tips and tricks.
Another book that really helped me a lot was Ultimate Guide to Prostate Milking and Massage. Basically, 90% of the stuff I’ll mention on my blog can be found in those two books…and then some. So I strongly recommend either of those two books, or both.
Preparation for prostate stimulation
Before you start with prostate stimulation, make sure you wash your hands well (we don’t want any bacteria going in there). Also, check your finger nails – they should be trimmed, otherwise you might tear the thin membrane on the rectal wall.
I usually urinate before the massage, because I always feel the urge to urinate in the middle of the whole thing if I don’t do it before. Take a nice warm shower, or simply do whatever relaxes you.
Remember, male prostate stimulation is al fun, relaxing and enjoying yourself.
Male prostate stimulation tips
Once you feel ready, place yourself in a nice comfortable position (doggy position or laying on my back works for me well) and start massaging the area between your testicles and anus. When you feel ready, insert one or two fingers into your anus.
Now this might seem odd, I know it felt really unpleasant the first time I did it. So I used a lubricant and I warmly advise you to do so – it will make things a lot easier.
I personally use Millennium Lube 16, it’s on sale now, a great universal lubricant I tried a lot of them and this one is the best so far. Here’s the review of all the lubricants I tried so far.
Once inside the anus, try to find a round ball of tissue – this should be the prostate gland. Bingo! Now relax and explore. Try the different pressures, stroke motions and whatever makes you feel comfortable.
I usually get an erection and orgasms without any other stimulation. But feel free to stroke your penis while massaging your prostate. Just explore and discover what makes you feel good.
For ultimate orgasms…
Go for the toys. I tried them just few months ago and this is a whole new world. You simply cannot do the stuff they do. It’s no wonder women like their vibrators.
So far I tried 3 of them (once I bought the first one discovered how great it is, I ordered another two right away, just to try them out).
Rude Boy was the first one I bought and it opened a whole new world for me. Highest medical grade silicone, hands free operation, powerful chrome bullet…pure pleasure. It’s a bit pricy, but I wanted to go for something special and well tested – since Rude Boy got some great reviews on Amazon, there really wasn’t any dilemma.
Don’t be cheap on these things, this is your pleasure and health at stake.
The other two are Aneros Maximus – next generation stimulator, feels very polished, easy to clean and what’s most important – it comes in smaller versions for those who just start out. For the beginners in male prostate stimulation, this is the best choice.
Finally, Tantus Feeldoe combo kit is something I can really suggest to any beginner. You get the whole package in this: lubricants, anal relaxant spray, stimulator…and it’s really cheap when you compare it to other products you would have to buy separated.
Hope these tips helped, make sure to check out the rest of my blog and don’t be affraid to explore male prostate stimulation techniques. Enjoy yourself.